My name is
Irma Valantinaite

And I am head-over-heels in love
with the possibilities of this life.

I see my life as a story that has the potential to inspire others

I was born in a tiny village in Lithuania, to Lithuanian parents, and nobody could have predicted where I would be in 20 years. In my wildest dreams, I could not even dare to think I would be where I am now. Since leaving my parents´ home to go to high school in 2003, I´ve gone from living in a village of 50 with no inhouse plumbing to staying in a 35th-floor penthouse in Melbourne, and to getting a Master´s degree in International Business at a foreign university, to becoming a Danish citizen, and to working in a global company as an IT Manager, and so much more.

During the journey of my life, I experienced a few obstacles and many difficult situations that would have made someone give up on the world and go back to that tiny village. Now do not get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with the place I was born in, just that it wasn´t right for me.

I believe I was born for adventure, to conquer the world or a small piece of it. I was born to challenge the unchallenged, to prove to myself that I can do and be much more than I think I can, and to inspire others to do the same. I was not born to listen to naysayers.

It all began with me going to the live Tony Robbins event in London that took me on an intense life-transforming journey and since then  left me with the message:


If we do not take control of our own lives, someone else will.

After many amazing and many not so amazing experiences, in 2018, I decided to share my story. For some years until then, I was searching for this one job that would inspire me, that one task, that would make me feel fulfilled, but it never came to me. I was always happy at the job I do, with the life I make for myself, but I was never completely fulfilled. And little by little, when I started working on myself, I found my passion, I found that calling that suddenly made all sense in the world. I wanted to share my story and I wanted to inspire other girls like me some time ago, to go for their dreams, to get clear on their vision, on their dream life. It all may sound cliché, but it is all true. I wanted no girl to feel heart-broken and alone.


That my story is my power. 

That I am the writer and the doer.

And with that knowledge came the realization, that I was given a colorful story not to hide from, but to use it as a tool to show up for those, who need showing up for.

Irma Valantinaite

Are you ready to own your story?

I didn´t invent a new theory, a new therapy, or a new way of thinking. All I did was to make a decision, to never let anyone decide how my life should be. Or give power to anyone to make me stay in bed and cry for days. I made the best investment – I invested in myself: countless webinars, seminars, books, practices, coaches. And I never stopped learning.

I learn from the people I see as role models, from the people, that inspire me. All I did, was to never ever give up. To always try, to look at every new day as a new opportunity, and never listen to naysayers. I feel so fortunate in the life I have. Not because it is perfect, but because it is better than it was before, and it is better than I could have ever imagined.

I had my share of struggles, and through it all, I came to the realization that I want to make it my mission, that no girl ever will feel alone, helpless, and not feeling the abundant love for herself. My hope is that we all are our own favorite persons. 

I realized that I want to be a role model to that little girl in that tiny village, or to that teenager in a mentally abusive relationship, or to that student traveling across the globe in search of a chance to a better life, or to that lady in her 20s with low self-esteem, or to that woman in her 30s carrying the weight of childhood traumas, to see the light, to stay strong and to shoot for the stars…

One step at a time…


I am improving my life one step at a time, and my goal is to help you do the same

I believe we already have inside of us all that we need to be strong, happy, in control of our decisions and our life.

Why not discover what the fulfilling, successful, happy, epic life would look like and feel like for you? Ask yourself:

  • Are you where you want to be in life?
  • Do you catch yourself secretly jealous of the life people around you are having?
  • What is stopping you from the life you know you should be living?
  • Are you feeling happy with your personal and professional life?
  • Are you happy about your relationship with yourself and others?
  • Are you focused and productive, or are you finding yourself all over the place?
  • Do you truly love and appreciate yourself?
  • Are you your most favorite person?
  • If not… what are you going to do about it?

Your life will be as good as you decide to make it.

So make it outstanding.

Are you ready to take the first step?  

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